So, you’ve booked a boudoir session. Or maybe you’re still thinking about it, caught somewhere between “This could be empowering” and “What the hell am I doing?” Totally normal. Whether you’re celebrating a milestone, reclaiming your confidence, or just want stunning photos of yourself, here’s exactly what to expect; no surprises, no pressure.

You Don’t Need to Be a Model

You don’t need to know how to pose. You don’t need a “perfect” body. You just need to show up. I’ll guide you through everything: where to look, how to position your hands, what to do with your legs, even how to breathe. My job is to make you feel confident, comfortable, and in control. No experience required.

We’ll Talk It All Through Before the Shoot

Before your session, we’ll hop on a video call to go over everything together. This isn’t just logistics; it’s a chance for me to get to know you, hear your goals, and help you feel completely prepared.

We’ll cover wardrobe: what you already own, what styles flatter your body, and what pieces will photograph beautifully. Whether that’s lace, leather, something oversized, or nothing at all, I’ll help you curate looks that feel right for you.

We’ll also discuss the overall mood you want: bold and seductive, soft and romantic, confident and powerful, or a mix. That energy shapes everything from posing to lighting to music during your shoot.

Just as important, we’ll talk about consent and boundaries. I’ll ask what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. There’s zero pressure to pose a certain way or wear anything that doesn’t feel right. This is your session, and it will move at your pace. My priority is that you feel safe, respected, and in control from start to finish.

When You Arrive, It’s All About You

When you show up for your session, the focus shifts completely to you. We’ll start by going through the wardrobe you brought: laying everything out, reviewing your options, and putting together a shooting plan that flows naturally and makes the most of your outfits and energy.

We’ll walk through the sets or backdrops we’ll use, how we’ll transition between looks, and what kinds of poses or vibes we’ll aim for with each one. This is where your vision and my direction come together to shape the experience.

Before we start shooting, we’ll also reconfirm your boundaries. Even if we discussed everything during your consultation, I’ll check in again to make sure you’re still feeling good about everything. If anything’s changed or doesn’t feel right in the moment, we adjust—no questions, no pressure.

From there, we ease into the session. If your package includes hair and makeup, you’ll get a bit of pampering before we start. I’ll guide you through each pose, help you relax, and keep things fun, light, and empowering. Nervous at first? Totally normal. But give it 15 minutes and you’ll be feeling yourself in no time.

You’ll See Yourself Differently

When we go through your images afterward, you might be surprised—in the best way. “That’s me?” Yes. It is. And it’s not Photoshop magic. It’s light, connection, confidence, and a whole lot of you showing up fully.

Boudoir is about so much more than sexy photos. It’s about seeing yourself with fresh eyes: strong, beautiful, and enough exactly as you are.

This Session Is Yours—Start to Finish

Yes, you can gift these photos to a partner. But more often than not, the real gift is what it does for you. I’ve had clients walk out standing taller, smiling wider, and reconnecting with parts of themselves they hadn’t seen in a long time.

Let Me Say This Clearly: You Don’t Need a Reason

You don’t need to lose weight. You don’t need to be photogenic. You don’t need a special occasion. All you need is the courage to say yes to yourself.

I’m here to guide you, support you, and show you just how damn stunning you already are. Let’s do this.